Do you have..?
That one friend that HATES it when she’s put in the position or does the things to you that she hates? Yeah well its continuously happening to me. Its starting to piss me off.
She always makes me the third wheel, I always have to go to her house, I’m always with her boyfriend and her friends. She’s been to my house ONCE, she picks plans that come up over me, she has only seen me twice on my birthday and gets upset if I somehow can’t see her once, when I see her every year for her birthday, oh and she’s ditched me on my birthday to go snowboarding.
She was supposed to come down this upcoming Saturday because my parents are having a party and her parents are coming, so she was going to drive them home and visit me. I told her if I could see Dylan I would. Then my friends all want to have a group hangout and asked me specifically what days I was not working so I could come, for once. Now they all want to hang out that night, I told her and she freaked out. She started guilt tripping me and saying things like “oh I’m never down (by your house), make it another weekend, etc.” I CAN’T, plus I never said it was for sure, I just said it was a maybe, you’ve done this to me before, and don’t guilt trip me, it won’t work because I have about 8 things I can say to when you say one thing about this stuff.
I’m just so pissed. This never changes. We’ve had this argument several times and nothing changes. I’m so frustrated.